You know what is ironic here? After spending some time talking to this email ff of his, I actually wished he WOULD have more contact with her.

She seemed to have a lot of good insight and quite honestly, I wish Wolfie got a lot of female perspective so he would realize that I'm not so odd! I know it helps me when I get good input from some of the guys here on the board.

So...does anyone have anything they would have handled differently in this sitch? Would anyone have just kept to themselves about knowing they were being lied to? Would anyone have gone on a major rant to their spouse about it?