This Ebola mess is crazy ... Especially working in a children's ICU/trauma unit. I feel lucky not to work in an urgent care or ER. Work has been crazy.. There was a family shooting this morning... A father shot all of his children after a fight with his wife... It is heart breaking. We do a lot of wonderful things where I work and save a lot of lives but it seems there have been more lives lost in the past month than saved. I work with a great group of nurses and physicians which helps but I can't say some days I don't question if my heart is cut out to see a family cry over losing a child ... To be honest it scares the sh*t out of me and if I could put my kids in a bubble I would probably try. Please put helmets on your children, use seat belts, look both ways before crossing the road, and get your babies swim lessons!! Okay I'm off of my soap box
H and I are headed down south this weekend. We are going to see a concert tonight and staying at the hard rock and will be doing some gambling
Things have been okay. We still struggle. H ex boss sent H a text (if you recall H asked him or any of them not to contact him. Well last Saturday he sent H a text saying if you know anyone that does good work send them to me, H replied okay.
He didn't tell me about this until I randomly asked if he had heard from anyone. He said he didn't think it was a big deal bc it was work related and he only said okay. I felt he should have ignored ex boss. Am I out of line? Our agreement was no communication UNLESS it was in person like at an auction or something business related. Ex boss has a lot of friends that could potentially hurt his new job and H doesn't want to do that to his new boss if that makes sense. H told me if he ignored ex boss he would go running his mouth and hurt his new jobs business (same industry).
I was very upset not so much by the text but that H is more concerned with making ex boss mad and hurting his new job. I get where he's coming from but we had an agreement. Any thoughts?
I hope everyone has a wonderful weekend. Thanks for checking on me Wounded- I hope you are doing well
