Agree, that is where my head is at as well.

The other interesting change...phone calls never appeared on my W's phone screen. In other words, if someone called, it never showed that she had a missed call. Texts did not show up either. You needed her code to open the phone and see the text (she is the only person I know that has a phone set up this way...clearly a sign of trying to hide things). I am not sure if she changed it so texts show up on her screen or not, but I have never seen a phone call appear on her screen. Granted, I do not check that often, but this could be a sign that she is TRYING to be transparent with me.

Either way, perhaps a positive sign but I need to stay detached for now. If she wants to commit to the M, she needs to tell me.


Me: 40, W: 40
M: 15, T: 18
D - 10, S - 7
D announcement 6/7/2014
A discovered 7/20/2014 (but denied by W)
Still living together and sharing same bed