I have been down today because tomorrow I had a date planned for the W and I, which she agreed to a week ago, that will not be going on. I want to ask her if she would like to go still, but DBing is making me think that I need to give her the space she requested and leave her alone. I was really excited too, and we really needed it.
I think this more than anything is going to let your W know that you're serious about this. I wouldn't tell her, unless it comes up in conversation.
It takes courage to do what you're doing.
ed. I used the wrong quote, should have been the one about going to IC.
Last edited by labug; 10/17/1402:33 PM.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
