Unbidden, I wouldn't say I was doing well. More like the divorce is happening and because we "tried" to make it work I am starting from square one in the detachment area and I had never really made that much progress to begin with.

He is such a cold/distant/detached person.

Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction