Inside My chrysalis 5

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So we've established that he wants

- Perfection
- Immediately
- From an already perfect human who has no faults and never has had any faults to work through

My H has a second wife?

I can't imagine that everyone here married monsters. So I guess it's the fog. But man is the fog making some of these WAS's act like jackA$$es.

Ss, just to be clear - You should be very, very proud that you have:

- Acknowledged problems and issues in your behavior
- Identified potential ways to correct those problems
- Done a lot of hard work to begin correcting them
- Done all of this work because you should, not to win someone back
- Shown tremendous patience and maturity acknowledging that it will take a long time for the changes to be permanent and part of YOU, not just an effort that you make

That is 99th percentile stuff for someone in your position. Most just say their ex is "crazy" and move on to future disasters with any real introspection. That was a really crappy thing for your WAH to say and I really hope you don't take it to heart, as hard as that may be to not do.