Well, this is the time of the month again… when H transfers money for the condo mortgage to my account. He’s been pretty consistent to do it on the 15th of each month. He actually almost got me trained, LOL. Yesterday at work I noticed that it was the 15th, so I checked my phone expecting a text from H. It was not there by 6 pm, so I started to worry something was up and I would not get the money. He texted after 7 pm, which would be after 9 pm his time. The text was exactly the same as last month, word for word. I noticed it after 9 pm my time, so I waited until this morning to text back “Thank you”.
Anyway, this is getting quite boring. I mean my sitch with H.
On a positive note, I and my neighbor/friend had a great time at the vacation place! She loved it so much that she is planning to bring her family (H and son) over there very soon, so they could enjoy it too. She said that now she knows why I keep going there so often.
There was no avoiding H in the conversations because she was asking so many questions about how we learnt about this place and all the history. We went out for girls night with my GF over there and the conversation about H came up again. They both said that they feel like H is going to want come back one day, but I will be involved in another R by then and will not want him back.
The good part is that my neighbor/friend was through a D once, it took her 5 years to recover, so she understands what I’ve been going through. And she is not pushing and not telling me to D him, just do what feels right for me. I like that. I was just able to give my side of the story without any judgment or advice from her. She actually learnt a couple of things about my H, she said that she is going to slap him if she sees him next time.
My male friend over there told me that he spoke with H recently and H told him that he was not happy about his job situation. He has not made enough money he wanted to. Oh well, this means he will have to keep working until he!! freezes (I mean the ground) in that state, and I can keep using the vacation home.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
