My guess would be for lunch, smokes and probably picking up some kind of snack after school for the kids. I brought her lunch so I feel ok there.

W very stressed out when I got home tonight. I prepared myself before going in tho use with an act as if, imagining how I would act if I was expecting her to be happy to see me. This was effective I feel like I defused things a little. She had forgotten that I have a dj gig later tonight and said she was planning to leave. I told her she could take a few hours out of the house and I would handle everything at home. She seemed really stressed about changing her plans to study but there's no reason why she can't study at home, so she seemed to catch herself before voicing frustration. She left, I fed, bathed and bedded kids. Even did some laundry and folded hers, which I haven't been doing. I sense that she is under a lot of stress, as you would imagine with everything she's scrambling to do and this health news. She'll be back in a bit and I will leave, and the hous is nice and clean/peaceful for her. All I can do right now.


M: 33
W: 33
M: 9 T: 10
3 S's: 8, 6 and 1.5
BD: 8/3/14
Living together