Hi Ggrass!

Yes, he is talking to me, but it's 99% talking AT me--- about himself.

He has yet to ask if I need anything, how I'm doing, how he can help me.

And, occasionally, he demands something, "I WANT..." and if he doesn't get it, he gets really pissy.

For example, this was an exchange when he was suddenly ready to leave here one day, when he said he'd stay until much later Guess he was mad about something, who knows?
I get a text from H: "I want to come up and see the dogs"
Me: 'When"
Him: "Now"
Me: "Can you give me 30 minutes? I am not feeling well, just got out of the tub"
Him: "No. Go in the bedroom and I won't bother you."
Me:. "Sorry, that won't work for me."
Him: "Fine. Bye!"
Me: "Next time maybe ask me ahead of time so we don't have this problem"
Him: No response.

This last one was a few weeks ago, but I know it's percolating right there under the surface. It will just take the right stimulus for him to go off on some snark-fest.

As for the make-up stuff---RIGHT ON, SISTER!

I am perfecting the art of hair, makeup, and heels.

And you can bet that GUBU notices. Not that he'll say anything. But... oh yeah. He sees it.

He saw my note to myself to use my "Victoria's Secret" coupon because it was on my "To-Do" list on the fridge. Along with "Finally get those cowboy boots!"
The V.S. is---Just so I feel sexy FOR ME.
But he's probably wondering....!

And, I have taken to wearing only sexy lingerie.
(As fas as he knows, anyway.)
And leaving it to dry in the shower for his perusal, after hand-washing it lovingly in the sink.
(Passive-Aggressive much? wink )

The man does love his fancy thongs...
Maybe it's not playing fair, but hey, I saw "The Breakup" movie too!
I haven't gone for the "Telly Savales" yet, though. smile

He also gets a nice dose of my perfume when he's here, even if he doesn't realize it.
It's on the shower curtain, his towel, his sheets, the toilet paper. The DOGS!!!

Take THAT, you GUBU, you!!

---(G)GGG


Me 54 Him 63
M 23 T 29
0 Kids
Funny Farm of Rescues
12/12 OW--
5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied
9/13 Proof OW: ENDED
2/14 Got D papers on my BD
I kicked him out for my sanity
9/14 He wants to "talk"?