I'm almost afraid to look at the dates...I think you and I both had the biggest fight with our H's in a LOOONG time, right around the same day...
THIS time it was ME who said "Maybe we should just get a Divorce!"
I'd brought up some stuff from that new book I'm reading...YES I DO still have questions about the A (or more to the point...HIS mindframe at the time)...and somehow it got turned around to something he'd heard that I'd done...A YEAR ago at that infamous wine and Sambuca party....
Then came up again, how I didn't "get" how badly I'd treated him "before"...tears...yelling...
It was a nasty scene...When I yelled "those words" in the heat of the moment...CJ had to run to the bathroom...he was sick, he was moaning and wailing...
I withdrew the comment (as best I could) right away, yet he reported feeling his entire life slip away...
Wait, before I go on...this is YOUR thread!
Just know that you are NOT alone in this stretch of piecing.
