Sure, but I don't know how I'll know when it's "time" to do the contacting. Especially if he hasn't contacted first.

I guess it's still early in the game. I can give it a few weeks or even a month and see what the situation is when that time comes.

ME: 38
BF: 40
T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice)
BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R.
10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW
12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies