Quote: He thinks his POV is all RIGHT and mine is all WRONG regarding the basics of what it takes to rebuild our relationship. He wants a "do-over" and get's pissed that I'm the kind of person who needs to process things.
Seattle brought up how Wolfie isn't equipped with all the R-tools that you are. Do you think maybe he might be receptive to some coaching? You could look at it as a way of asking for what you want. A good intro could be ... "being right is not always solution to get you closer to where you want to be." Can you think of a example that he might relate to that you could bring up where you took the stance of being right kept you from goal? Also, it could help to come up with an example of how taking a moment to "walk in another's shoes" can help with understanding where that person is coming from and how that is more important than who is right or wrong...
