Wolfie, you have some splainin to do! I'll bring Poe's 2x4, just tell me where he's at LOL!
I used to be that way too. Pity party for me because I do so much. I woke up when I realized I was going to lose the most important thing in my life. I quit worrying about me so much, my giver took control after my taker was so much in control.
You have every right to feel the way you do. Going through the processing is very tough. I sometimes wonder if I ever get to the point you are if I will be able to process it and let go. Once you have gone through this it is a tough deal to not feel like you are giving so much and it is not appreciated. Boy do I feel that way now.
Just know he is trying, he just isn't as smart as you. He doesn't have the tools and knowledge to know what you know. That all of that self-centered BS is not what love and M is all about. Hey, some guys learn real slow. Think of him like a big puppy dog, he doesn't know what he is doing when he chews up your favorite shoe and brings it to you. He just thought you would like your favorite shoe.
Question for you, you posted on my thread about MC. Do you have a good MC you could recommend in our part of the world?
