Wow Ss - this seems like a tough day for a lot of us. I'm glad that you realize that he is asking for the impossible. Much as you would like him to come home - I don't think you should agree to any of that.
In any of this discussion was Marriage counseling mentioned?
Ss - you have done a lot of hard self reflection and you seem very willing to acknowledge your issues in the marriage. However - some of the things that you have written lately certainly make it sound like your H has his own major issues. Emailing escorts from craigslist is not a small thing after all.
