Thanks Card (and others). You bring up some very good points that actually help explain why I feel so conflicted right now. Ironically, I have been praying for a while now that W discovers what all she needs to work on and takes those necessary steps. On the flip side, I obviously wanted that process to involve W finding out that she did want to work on our M. And maybe that will eventually be the case...
Soccer this weekend, school play in a couple weeks, trick or treat...right now I have no desire to do any of those things as 'family' or with W being involved. Maybe in time, but it's difficult for me to ever see someone who has cheated on me, then made a conscious decision not to put the work in to restoring our M, as a friend...
On a side note, I have W's favorite bottle of wine and some chocolate covered strawberries I was planning on giving her on Sweetest Day (had planned/ordered last week when we were still working on things). I've already paid for everything, so going to drop off at W's place (anonymously). One last good will action.
