I might also advise you to consider your response to the scenario where she comes back two weeks from now and 'wants to work on the marriage' with half-steps.
A very good point. It seems like a lot changed in your sitch, Tarheel, just in the last week. Don't have any expectations, but give her a few weeks in your new arrangement (especially if you go dark) and see what it's like then.
Me 38, WAW 30 D11 (former marriage) S2 T 8 years M 3 years BD 8/20/23 S 8/20/23