My wife of 18 years (together 27) told me the other day that she "didn't know" if she wanted to stay with me anymore. I had known something was wrong for the past year and had asked if anything was wrong and was always met with "no". She told me this in the context of me talking to her about some recurring issues we've had. She told me she is tired and frustrated and doesn't think I'll ever change if I haven't over 2 decades. I am using some of the concepts in Divorce Remedy and another solution oriented book. I am working on making small goals. The upside is she hasn't left or said she is going to yet. The downside is that she is hurt, angry, and mistrustful of me right now. Just trying to find direction. Thanks.
M-44 W-44 Sons- 11&14 Married- 18 Together- 27 Separation mentioned- 9-29-14 Still together, but not "together" "if you feel rotten and forgotten, remember there'll be better days."