Oh, and without snooping, I snooped. Appears she is still at it. Apparently this last week has all been cake eating. Knowing the A is ongoing bothers me but not like I expected. It's the continued denial that I think bothers me most. I've told her, I can handle anything she might say, just be honest (though I don't need the dirty details). If you want to leave, GO. My only request or boundary, "Just be honest". I harp on the boys all the time about how they are not to lie to me. I discipline more for the lie than the thing they lie about. She sits in the same room, straight faced, and hears me say that to them. People are crazy.
GAL, Let it Go. So tough some days.
Me: 37, W: 36 S6, S3 M: 8 T:11 Discovered 1st A: 9/3/14 Began DB: 9/20/14 W "ended" 1st A repeatedly Discovered at least 3 more A's, filed 10/29/14