Wife in denied but ongoing affair, what to do???

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She said I opted out of a camping trip, leaving her to take the kids camping without me. Yes, I did that too. She took them camping twice, first time I went but left a day early because a friend was in town for a visit prior to moving out of the country for 3 years. The second trip I didn't attend because it was poorly planned and from the website I knew they couldn't camp overnight.

I didn't go but said she was free to enjoy the disaster. About 7 that night I get a text that says she was heading home, didn't even set up the tent. W said that several people (part of their group) were drunk and fighting in front of the kids. I considered an 'I told you so', but instead I told her I would set up the tent in the backyard, build a fire, and get fixins for smores.

So, the 2nd camping trip I did attend as well, just not how it was planned. And for the record, the people who stayed had to sleep on their boats because overnight camping was NOT ALLOWED. I didn't even say I told you so. She mentioned the camping trips at both group MC sessions we had, that is until she stopped attending the group sessions with me, ironically.

She went to the lake with friends, twice plus the 2 camping trips. The first I went along. The second I skipped to paint a house for extra money. I felt I was sacrificing a good time to earn extra money we needed for her misc spending. Apparently I missed that one too.