That all said, I still work part-time while job hunting for a full-time gig that pays more than my part-time small business. I even do home remodeling work on free days for extra cash.
The finances/budget are doable on paper, putting money in the bank if we (she) wasn't spending $1000 - $2000 over budget per month. Just misc. stuff, I don't even have a boat to show for it. When I realized we were draining our savings, instead of putting money into it, I took over budget duty. That was July 2014. The spending was another indicator I missed, but when I saw it I told a friend I thought it looked like a kamikaze mission. It appears I may have been correct. She saw finances as a problem, and by over spending made it one.
Me: 37, W: 36 S6, S3 M: 8 T:11 Discovered 1st A: 9/3/14 Began DB: 9/20/14 W "ended" 1st A repeatedly Discovered at least 3 more A's, filed 10/29/14