IC advised that I take her up on the Nov 1st move out "offer", even though W clearly isn't ready to move out then and only wanted my permission to delay until the new year. IC asked "can you really do 2.5 months more of this? Can your kids?" She suggested taking the initiative to plan for her to move rather than waiting for her to decide would be a 180 of sorts. She suggested I writ her a letter.
What do the vets think? Do I ask her to leave Nov 1?
Foot, I am interested in what the vets think of this, too. Because I'm becoming more and more interested in setting and keeping a move out date for H, even if he has to go to a hotel. He is being so picky about places to rent that he hasn't found anything in the two and a half months that he's been seriously looking (6 months since he first started talking about it). I'm just about ready to try something different.