I don't know if it's right with the DB concept, but I have the feeling today that I just want her gone. At least to a different bed as the A continues. We just got our family photos delivered. They were taken back in September about 2 weeks after I confronted her and about 3 days after I found A was ongoing (despite her denials), and I want to photoshop her out of my life. I turned over pictures with her in them, but then it hides my sons. I'm sure I'll put them back before she gets home, but I get the feeling that detachment is impossible while we share a bed. Some people would probably be ecstatic to have their affair having/denying W back in the same bed, but it feels so wrong today. Maybe tomorrow this will pass, but I can sympathize with wanting to leave her. I just don't know what to do because of the boys. I will suffer on and see what happens. GAL and 'let it go' best I can. Ugh.
Good luck, God bless.
Me: 37, W: 36 S6, S3 M: 8 T:11 Discovered 1st A: 9/3/14 Began DB: 9/20/14 W "ended" 1st A repeatedly Discovered at least 3 more A's, filed 10/29/14