Do I walk away from WAW? (1)

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Thanks for the reply blind. The affair is an open secret basically. She leaves the house "to study" and goes to his house. I say nothing.

Luckily I had an IC appt this morning, so I asked her how I might handle this text. She suggested I simply reply back asking what she needed. I did that, and offered to bring her lunch. Which is what I ended up doing. She thanked me, and let me know that her Vit D levels are beyond overdose levels and she could have gone into kidney failure. Last fall, her levels were alarmingly low so she started taking this supplement, apparently she's been taking way too much of it. She seems to think this will address all her symptoms. We'll see.

IC advised that I take her up on the Nov 1st move out "offer", even though W clearly isn't ready to move out then and only wanted my permission to delay until the new year. IC asked "can you really do 2.5 months more of this? Can your kids?" She suggested taking the initiative to plan for her to move rather than waiting for her to decide would be a 180 of sorts. She suggested I writ her a letter.

What do the vets think? Do I ask her to leave Nov 1?