I meant "un-cancelled", above. I have a full weekend planned but now I'm feeling sort of under the weather. I've got a very stuffy nose, muscle aches....I'm thinking head cold.

Hopefully this stays away so I can go.

Working on trying to keep the mister out of my head and not rehashing "why" over and over or being upset when I recall something he said that I felt doesn't match my truth. Someone said a big red stop sign? Working on it.

ME: 38
BF: 40
T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice)
BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R.
10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW
12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies