I can't help but think the MC would give us the skills to rebuild an "us". I feel this so much so that I want to tell her that I want to go to MC when she is ready.

I just don't know if that is the right move now or not.

I was going to bring it up when we were on an upswing so it did not seem like I was grasping at straws when mentioning MC. I want it to help repair and strengthen us.


M:34 XW:34
Together: 10y
Living: 9y
Married: 7y
Son:6 Son:4
Separated: 12/28/13
Piecing: 5/2/14
Separated 2nd: 10/16/14
W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14
papers served: 1/27/15
D final: 3/6/15