When I first started reading this yesterday my first thought was "oh no, not Tal, too!
Quote: And I'm taking everything of mine with me so you don't burn it".
I'm sorry, but this did make me chuckle a little. Just the visual of the bonfire...
My H likes to threat moving out, but he's been doing it so it's not a threat. M H does this all the time, whenever I try to hold him accountable the first words out of his mouth are "I'm moving out!" Even though they might not mean it, they overreact, it still hurts and I know the fear it brings.
My H overreacts all the time! But, that's okay. I won't even go there.