Hi south. Seems you have it worse than me. My W comes home most days and stays on e a week. She has girls on Friday night and brings then home sat. She was home last night a spent this morning at breakfast crying and telling me her problems. Dooooh.
W sees daughter for one hour on a Friday they go to costa together and then once every 5 weeks she stays at MIL with W for the Saturday evening and I pick her up on the Sunday afternoon.
To be honest I like it like that as kids keep me busy and sain.
Not sure what will happen if and when W gets her own place which will most probably be a bedsit . Suppose daughter will stay with her a lot more but not sure how that would work out financially for my W as she will have barely enough to live on herself . Once again something W didn't think about .
Feel like sending W a text telling her to make more of an effort with the kids but realise that's not my job anymore .
Me 40 W 37 Together 22 years S18 D12 WaW 12/08/14 after affair exposed , suspected for several months W returned home for 2 weeks to see if can handle family life After the 2 weeks she has left .