Tarheel, that is a tough message to digest. She is moving towards S and very likely D. But I agree with the others that there is some hope. All you can do is move forward, GAL, detach and focus on you and your kids.
Me: 40, W: 40 M: 15, T: 18 D - 10, S - 7 D announcement 6/7/2014 A discovered 7/20/2014 (but denied by W) Still living together and sharing same bed