I guess I should give some details. It sounds like he has actually filed - he said it would be more favorable to me if it was heard in my county so there is already a petition to move it there.
He said our marriage had become too much like his parents because we sleep in separate beds. For the record, we do this because of his work schedule and I always thought it bothered me more than him.
He also said he is planning on establishing residency in Nevada so that when the girls are older he can move there becasue he "hates California".
Happily my DB coach is available today so I have a coaching session with her.
THis shouldn't bother me quite so much. I was fully expecting him to file in January when our self imposed waiting period lifted (he is so withdrawn I just didn;t think major improvement was possible by then) - but I figured time was my ally and was trying to stretch everything as much as possible.
