Well, we talked a little on the phone tonight. I told him "for better or for worse" doesn't mean "until the next time I get mad and threaten to move out".

He said he was just overreacting and had lost his temper--but he'd put all his stuff back in the closet. I told him that there are a lot of things I can take with a grain of salt that he says when he's angry--but that particular threat has to be OFF the table.

He said he felt a fool as soon as he'd said it, and it would never happen again.

Dang...you know I actually spent time today seriously wondering if I could learn to become a lesbian.....