Yep... I did follow him around like a puppy trying to finish our convo. He used to ask me to do that before & I didn't like doing it back then either. I wish I had said, that I would prefer to finish the convo when he has time to talk.
I see your point (& a few others) who agree with you to Drop his butt, etc....I see how that could possibly work. However, I am not prepared to do that at this time, as I did agree to "seeing how it goes" (on his terms). I would like to try this through to Christmas.
Yes, men are hunters. I do not feel that the approach above is the ONLY way to present him a challenge... there MUST be ways to do this while "seeing how things go".
I want to be a challenge.... are there any other ways on my terms? my comfort?
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I am also thinking of NOT saying anything about his "testing". Maybe by saying nothing possibly leaves him questioning the unknown. Me constantly shoving my feelings in his face, might also add to his "pressure", and I appear weak. He won't take my comment seriously and dismiss/disregard.... so whats the point. However, in the background I will be testing him too. I don't need to broadcast it.
So, if/when he asks again today... I guess I will just say "yep, I guess we can see how it goes".... not a big long story to go with it!
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