Tarheel, there's hope in that message from your W. I can only imagine how hard it must be to accept that arrangement. Then again, I'd take it over where I am now.
Let her have time to heal and space to clear her head. You work on you, and do all the things we DB'ers do.
It seems a common thread amongst the success stories around here is that once one of the LRT triggers goes off, a clean break is necessary at some point for the WAS/MLC'er to come back around. Don't know if that's 100% true, but it seems close to the mark.
Me: 43 XW: 43 T15 M14 D21, SS15, S11, D8 BD: 8/6 EA / possible PA discovered 9/29 D final 10/20