Tarheel, that hurts a lot. But making things more regular can also work to your advantage in giving you both the space to see things more clearly. I hope you can take the. Long view...it's only a setback in that she doesn't want to work on the marriage right now, which you already knew. In other ways, it impacts you very little.

I'm sorry for the pain.

Last edited by Maybell; 10/16/14 01:31 PM.
Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.