The mind of a WAW is gone and not just for me but my kids also. My D is ill and needed to go to doctors today so I just sent a txt to W and said she had a virus and doesn't need antibiotics and the reply I got was "ok" Surely expecting a bit more than just "ok" maybe even a hope she gets better soon. So I'm starting to think that it's not just us LBS that are walked away from but also the kids .
The W made it very clear she was done with family life but I wasn't really expecting this sort of situation . And then hear from MIL And Ws sister that she is missing the kids so much its killing her .
Things don't add up . But do they ever in the mad world I find myself in.
South- this is par for the course - My 3 year old has been to the dr. 4 times since separation and all I ever get in response from H is "ok". I made a similar comment on my thread about a month ago and one of the older posters pointed out that its very possible that they miss the kids, but not the grind of the daily routine.
Its rough on the kids for sure, and difficult to shield them. I think also WAS don't want to think of themselves as a "bad person" so its easy to give lip service to missing the kids a lot.
