Mm quit following this man around like a puppy begging for attention. I am harsh with u because I was you and it's sickening. If you really want those things u just mentioned then drop his butt like a hot potato......stop asking questions, stop begging for attention and Get a Life Totally witnout him. Stop letting fear hold u back. If u do this, u will really see who he is and where u stand on his list of priorities. Men r hunters and u hon r def not a challenge. U want to be but u don't listen......so therefore u will continue to go round and round with him. Next yr. same time same place I will know where to find u. Sry just the way it is.