Nitty, I get sucked into the Facebook trap too. My wife "unfriended" me Sat in retaliation because I stupidly brought up the di*k picture I found on her phone back in Aug.
I would keep it on the DL until you have more intel.
Me 47 - W 35 M 9 - T 10 2 Daughters - 7 & 9 Discovery of EA- 8/4/14 S - 8/5/15 D mentioned - 9/11/14 R & Piecing - 3/17/15 Regard one another as more important than yourselves. - Philippians 2:3