Dang! I posted on your old thread! I didn't see the new one!

If you haven't fixed the cycle yet, then join the club. None of us have it mastered. If we did, we'd be writing the books. I figure progress in the right direction is good. Better than what we had before!

Every day, a little better. Every now and then, a couple of steps backward. Sometimes we fall flat on our face. As long as we get up and keep slugging away at it.

And I would not consider your W's estimation of you as having any kind of value in it. Her judgment is pretty damn bad right now. At least, that's what I've noticed.

M:54, H:55
T:33, M:27
12/13 BD: EA
01/14 BD: PA, H leaves
03/14 H & OW break up
05/14 H says he will file for D
08/14 H initiates D
09/14 H wants to R
12/14 Still bungling our way through R