A LOT can happen in a year. Don't sweat it. You have your own self to worry about.
I'm sorry things are hard right now. I agree that a divorce is really different from a separation. It staggers me how quickly that can happen in some places. It's a huge decision, it should take longer.
Wishing you the best, Shakes. Your thread's about to lock... What would be a great upbeat title for the next one? Maybe a line from one of the sonnets.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15