Am I the only LD here?

[FunDad]

Just read this thread. Wow. I wish my wife had made half the effort I've seen described here. She chucked our sex life out the window years ago, even so I still hung on being the best husband I could. I worked on meeting all of her needs that she could describe, but no matter, she is divorcing me anyway. I know the lack of sex affected my mood and at times I was no fun to be around, but the lack of sex (outright denial) in a marriage for a person that needs it can really create a dark cloud that makes it hard to see through the fog. Sounds like you have worked really hard to make your H see sunshine. Good for you and God bless you. :-)