That's what I was thinking, Jefe. Seems like the thought of it all is constantly there on my mind. I can't make it go away. I can think about other things but the other mess is there and I can feel it and it appears to have taken up permanent residence.
Me: 54 H: 58 Married: 29 years Together 33 years H admitted to A: 5/29/14 H moved out :6/15/14 OW lives 4 hours away and "occasionally" stays weekends with H D23 D18
