Nitty in a Nutshell #2

[Nitty]

Something is happening... OW just blocked me from her FB profile.

Before I get a bunch of 2' x 4's, hear me out.

I spent a large part of this MLC not DBing. FB was a huge source of intel once I got the BD. OW and I were FB friends because we were friends IRL before the BD (at least I thought we were friends).

The day H told her he gave me the BD, she changed her profile pic for the first time in 2 years. She began posting quotes about "seizing happiness when it comes" and "not caring what the world thinks about us". H "liked" everything she posted.

Even though she knew I knew about her, she did not defriend me. I did not defriend her because, hello, INTEL. The three of us remained FB friends.

It was like a game of chicken. She knew I knew. She continued to "like" only those posts and photos of him that did not contain any family members. He continued to "like" everything she posted, even though we were in MC.

She finally defriended the both of us -- just before H left me me to go back to her. Those were awful days. I would review her FB public profile almost hourly, looking for profile pic changes, checking to see if she and H became friends again (they didn't).

Then I found this forum and began DBing in earnest. I started weaning myself off FB stalking. I limited myself to peeking at their profiles once a day, then once a week, and by the time I got to once a month I would forget to look. Because I was GAL.

Last week I felt Mr. Gritty was serious about reconciling so I decided to block her. I looked at her public profile for the first time in a long while. I found I couldn't go through with it because how would I know if she and Mr. Gritty became friends again? I prayed on it, finally got up the balls to block her, went to do it yesterday and guess what?

She already blocked me! She actually made an action to secure her privacy against me and she did it within the last 7 days.

I am not going to tell anybody I've been blocked, only you guys. Nobody but you will understand my former stalker status as a Pre-DBer. And all of you will understand why it would be stupid to let anybody else know, especially Mr. Gritty.

But... something is happening on her end. She is going to do something. Just what, I don't know. More important is how H responds.