In real time right now I am being berated for being "demeaning, dismissive, and judgemental". These are the favorite words of choice.
I asked genuinely for an example in our exchange where this was occurring, and I got a response that went back to previous things that upset her, like my letter to her back in the summer.
Clearly, clarity is absent here. What I wonder, is why does she care so much. Why so angry all the time. I feel like she is trying to blame me for her making her decision. Say hello to Super Dark Dev, SDD, not STD is in the house