I have no idea, thats why I asked? We talked about it briefly, she played it down (it's not cancer, etc) a lot and clearly didnt want me to be worried. she didnt seem affected at all. i mean, i think she has known something was wrong for a very long time. we hugged. then i put the kids to bed and she went and sat on the couch watching tv and texting. i went to bed early.
today she texted me asking if I had cash on me she could swing by work on grab to avoid overdraft fees in her bank account. i said i didnt have any cash (which was true, though i honestly did not know how to answer this), she responded with a never mind.
M: 33 W: 33 M: 9 T: 10 3 S's: 8, 6 and 1.5 BD: 8/3/14 Living together