Yup, lots of physical pain to go alone with the mental pain. I tend to feel it in my chest. GALing helps to get my mind off of things. Sometimes at work at actually go 10-15 min without thinking about it, which is nice. I know with time it will get easier. We all know plenty of people who are D and very happy. They all find love again.
Me: 40, W: 40 M: 15, T: 18 D - 10, S - 7 D announcement 6/7/2014 A discovered 7/20/2014 (but denied by W) Still living together and sharing same bed