I have read and learned MORE than I ever would like to have had on this subject. W contracted H1 vaginally qith OM, her immune system is weak, during all this I rushed to get tested as OM has been a "friend for 4 years" and I was not going to trust when he and her decided to play around.
I will say, you can manage this, look into your diet as well... diet and stress will effect this, the fact you have not had an outbreak .. thats a huge positive.
You will get through this ... dont stress, ... its just another obstacle.