I'm sorry to hear that your D is finalized. I can imagine it's a difficult day. I am prepared for mine should it arrive. Just wanted to point out a few things to you.
While the D may be the end result, I think over the process you have grown, and recognized those things within yourself that you needed to change. My guess is you won't end up in a similar situation again.
The perspective you bring to the table as the wayward is invaluable, and your insight and contributions are appreciated. Hope you stay around, and best of luck in this new chapter.
