Mindsin A couple of things jump out at me. 1) do you see how your W is really struggling? (The way she called your (plural) 3 yo D, "your" (as in, only you!) was really telling.
2) congrats on some progress of NC. Definitely good work dealing with parenting schedule, and not questioning her plans or whereabouts. And good job not taking the "cold shoulder" bait!
The goodnight text is a bit of that, so be careful of that reaching out/pursuing.
Keep it up. Fight those urges to control what she does or how she feels. Stay in your own sandbox. Her difficulty with your (and her!!) D will be much more powerful when you stay out of it. Nice to see this forward motion, Mindsink!
