I am so sorry it didn't work out. My marriage is headed the same direction. :-(
I just don't understand after all of this crap why he doesn't try harder?

Oh well, moving on. It's sad he is going to end up in the same position as you but he really didn't try hard enough.

Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction