Please see my post from 15 minutes ago. But, I have another long-winded question.

It take time to internalize all the DB wisdom. This wisdom dictates how I should respond in a given situation. In the absence of wisdom, I do not get any real-time advice. I don't want to make a mistake. I have made so many in the process already.

My W has already served me dissolution papers and really wants to proceed with D mediation. I told her I would proceed. She already thinks I am dragging my feet. I need to email the mediator and my W to tell them I am ready to start mediation. I do not know what to write. I do not want to make it look like I am asking for the divorce. Any suggestions?


Me 48 XW 45
lots o' kids
D April 2017