my W cant even afford to buy a car let alone run one on her own. we used to share the family car which i have all the time. its a bloody pain sometimes as i have to drop of and pick up kids from the MIL all the time . something that id sooner not do for fear of seeing W . Makes me think somethings not right why do i have to do all the picking up and dropping of but the option of making the kids walk is not something i would do to them.
having to deal with a big fallout with my kids at the moment . my 18 year old son hates his sister who is 12 and it just causes so much trouble . trouble i really could do without. think son is in a bad place as his biggest ally his mum isnt there to back up his rediculous reactions to his sisters humming or singing or listenning to music on her ipad.
tyring to give him space to sort himself but he really does have it in for his sister at the moment. suppose it doesnt help that his mum has only seen him once since she left over a month ago but has seen his sister every week and sometimes twice a week . he is score keeping on how many times they have seen her .
this has become worse since i backed away from trying to get them to initiate contact with there mum.
Me 40 W 37 Together 22 years S18 D12 WaW 12/08/14 after affair exposed , suspected for several months W returned home for 2 weeks to see if can handle family life After the 2 weeks she has left .
